Dates Advantage

Women want you. If you only pick up one piece of knowledge from this guide, it should be that. It doesn't matter if you're an experienced pick up artist who's reading this in order to hone your already expert skills or someone who has never had any real luck with the fairer sex, this guide will teach you the one empirical fact that women want you. Aside from that, this guide will also teach you to communicate effectively with women and get more dates than you can possibly handle.

First off, let's talk about what else women want. Women want to be desired and admired, but not drained. They want to believe, whether or not it's true, that you want their brains and their bodies. You will learn later on that this simple reality is why pick-up lines never, ever work.

Above all else, women are romantic. You must never forget that every woman wants to meet that one special person to share the rest of her life with. However, you should never think that they don't want to have some fun along the way.

If you are a genuine person and know how to talk to women, then there will be girls all over the place who want to date or hook up with you. Women are not shallow. It doesn't matter if you're overweight, unattractive or barely scraping by after paying the bills. Women will still want you.

If you follow the steps and advice that are laid out in this guide, you will learn how to get any girl out there. We will start with how you present yourself and then move on to your communication techniques and then we'll build your confidence to help you conquer your fear of rejection.

Once we get the inner you squared away, we'll get down to brass tacks by examining the pros and cons of some common hunting ground. We will then talk about body language and pick up lines before investigating how to turn a casual acquaintance into a girlfriend. This is where things will heat up and well move into the bedroom!

Let's start at the beginning. Just stop. Before your try to pick up another girl, let's take a look at you.

We are going to analyze your intentions and actions. You must be aware that when you approach a woman, you are trying to sell yourself. If you were trying to sell a car, you would take certain measures to ensure that it looked and smelled good, wouldn't you?

You are trying to sell the idea of yourself to a woman. You are trying to convince her that you're attractive, funny, interesting, and sexy as hell. When you try to sell your car, you need to make sure that it is clean and well kept. It's the exact thing with your personal presentation to women.

If you don't put some effort into your appearance and present yourself as best you can, you will undermine every other effort that you are about to make in the rest of this guide. Be all judge books by their covers and people are exactly the same thing.

That, of course, is not to say that you need to schedule an appointment with your local plastic surgeon or kill yourself at the gym. We are not talking about extremes here. What you must do, however, is make sure that you are clean, maintain good personal hygiene, and dress yourself appropriately for each setting.

The clothes make the man

There is nothing attractive about a man who cannot dress himself properly. You must check to make sure that your clothes are in decent condition with no rips and tears. You must make sure that they are clean and that your pants do not clash with your shirt. Having a well put together outfit is much more important that the brand name on the tag.

Personal hygiene

Always, always, always shower before a date. Shower thoroughly and wash your balls until they glisten. You never know where a date might lead, so you must be prepared. When you make sure that you are impeccably clean and that you smell good, you are giving the girl fewer reasons to reject you.

It is always worth the time to check yourself in a mirror before you approach a woman. If she is staring dreamily into your eyes, you want it to be because she is getting lost in them and not because she's trying to figure out how you inexplicably got mashed potatoes and gravy smudged onto the bridge of your nose.

If you ask most men what stands between them and their dream girl, the answer that you'll get most of the time is the action killing fear of rejection. It's the most common thought to make its way through your head as you approach those seemingly unattainable girls. You have probably been in the situation where you find yourself in a crowd of people when some amazing creature meets your eyes from across the room. What did you do? Did you approach her? Did you convince yourself that you've not good enough and have zero chance of getting her?

Even the best pick up artists get rejected sometimes. The case is often that the rejection has nothing to do with the man himself, but rather that she is already attached or simply feeling unwell. She may even have just gone through a bad breakup, or may even love vagina herself, just as much as the guy!

Even if she cites one of the completely genuine reasons, rejection is never easy. We, as men, feel discarded and abandoned and completely worthless.

The truth, however, is that rejection is never as bad as it seems. Take that woman who loves pussy, for example. How many times do you think she has approached some gorgeous blonde with huge tits while imagining burying her face deep inside her sopping wet nether regions only to find that her target is one hundred percent heterosexual? Do you think she takes the rejection to heart and spends the rest of her life moping around? No, of course she doesn't. She simply goes home, sets her vibrator to “jackhammer” and fucks that blonde in her mind until her legs turn to Jello, passes out, and tries for someone even hotter the next day.

Getting rejected is never as bad as you think. The real question you must ask yourself is whether or not you would regret never approaching the woman at all.

Everyone feels a fear of rejection at some point. If you are a shy guy, then the idea of approaching a woman probably has you hyperventilating. Fear not. With the tips that are set out in this guide, you will learn how to acknowledge and manage your fears and not let them get in the way of your next steamy night.

What's the worst that can happen?

Being rejected is never pleasant, but you must remember that the worst thing that can happen is a few moment of embarrassment or even a polite brush off. It can be excruciating in public, but there is no shame in it at all.

Always remember that if a woman is rude or unkind when she turns you down, then you've just gotten yourself an extremely lucky escape. If she is the kind of person to humiliate you in public, then just imagine how awful she must be to everyone around her.

What next?

Feeling worthwhile is the key to picking up girls, so it's worth spending some time pondering your own self-worth. You are a valuable person with a lot to offer. So much so, that it is very mush worth seeing it in your own handwriting. Follow the steps below:

Now write them down in the list below. Don't be shy, just turn them out.

Now, obviously, you're not going to get much tail by bragging about yourself. It is not recommended that you approach every girl on the street and tell her that you're handy with tools. The purpose of this exercise is to strengthen your own self-image. This is the first step toward becoming better at picking up women. It goes all of the way back to what we said at the beginning of this guide. When you sell a car, you have to make sure that it looks and smells good. No one is going to buy a car from someone who thinks that it's a piece of crap. Perception is reality.

Now that you've realized that everyone gets rejected at some point (even hot lesbians), and you've reflected on the fact that you have something to offer, it's time to give your new found confidence a road test. Let's take a look at some practical steps to ensure that you are getting to control your fear of rejection.

Here are the practical steps that you can take to get over your fear of approaching women. Please take them to heart.

Step 1

If your fear of being rejected is so strong that it has stopped you from going out with anyone and paralyzed your social life, then we need to break you back into the world very gently. Your first mission is to go out to a public place and strike up a conversation with a woman. You must do this with no expectation of a romantic or sexual outcome. Just strike up a conversation with any woman that you see, whether she's hot or homely, young or old, it doesn't matter. The conversation doesn't need to go anywhere, but if you make it past a few lines, then you're well on your way.

The women might give you a simple grunt or she may engage you in conversation. Either way, you've just taken the first step toward conquering your fear of rejection. Great work!

Step 2

Here you will repeat the actions you took in step 1. You've already done it once, so you know how easy it is.

Once you have initiated the conversation, you must now communicate to the woman that you are interested in her. You need to send out the message that you are not merely passing the time with her, but that you have chosen her, and only her to speak with.

Once you get further down into this guide, you will be able to read her body language and know how to judge her reaction. You will be able to tell if she is acting open or if she is acting closed. Use the tips from chapter 4 to let her know that you are interested as well if she is acting open.

Step 3

When you have completed steps one and two, you can graduate to step three and declare your interest explicitly. Ask for a date and giver her your number. In an age when we are all told to be careful about our personal information, girls are understandably reluctant about the idea of giving out their numbers to men that they've never met before. By giving her your number, you are showing her that you are interested in further contact, but you respect her personal space at the same time.

Now, let's talk about the best places to meet interested women. Although bars and pubs are the traditional hook up spots, you may be surprised at some of the other places for you to meet your next intimate encounter.

If you meet a woman at the gym, you already have a head start. You have something in common; exercise. This can immediately be used as a topic of conversation to bond over. Ask her if she is training for a particular even or just visiting to relax. Who knows, maybe she's tired of constantly being approached by lesbians at her favorite bar and visits the gym to get some man into her system.

Obviously, she will be sweaty and scantily clad while she's in the gym. Never ever refer to how she looks in this state. You may find it highly attractive, like most men do, but she does not find herself attractive. Take a mental picture and spank it out later, but keep it off of the conversational docket.

An evening class

Taking a class in a foreign language, art or philosophy can be a great way to meet women. As with the gym, you already have something in common, so breaking into conversation will be straightforward. Foreign language classes are particularly good for this as the tutor will engineer scenarios where students have to practice their newly learned phrases with each other. This is a situation where she is obliged to talk to you. What could be better?

Also, if you are learning a language from a country that is famous for its cuisine, why not invite her to a restaurant after class? There's nothing better than starting your evening in Italian class and ending it with pizza.

If you do go with the class, make sure you take the studying seriously and do your homework. No girl is ever attracted to the lazy kid in class who needs special help.

Museums and galleries

Museums and galleries are a godsend to guys who are trying to pick up single women. If you are looking for a classy and intelligent woman, this is where they hang out and look at statues of strapping young men while mentally taking stock of their battery supply at home.

If struggling for topics of conversation has always been a problem, look straight at the wall in front of you and there is an exhibit or piece of art that should give you at least the ammunition you need to work up the courage to talk to her.

Ask her which painting she prefers or what her favorite period of history happens to be. Obviously, you have to have some kind of knowledge about this before you approach her. Perhaps she's there with a friend, in which case, speak to them both. Generally, is the friend likes you; you're on your way. One thing is crucial in these circumstances, however. You must never flirt using a scattershot approach. If you flirt with both of them, they will both dismiss you as neither is made to feel special.

In the worst case scenario, they may think that you're some sexual pervert who is trying to convince them to have a three way with you. If these two girls are close enough friends, they may experiment with each other when the hour gets late and the wine gets low, but no one is looking to get picked up for the freaky stuff when they're sober.

Museums and galleries are also great for link dating. A link date is one the piggybacks from your initial situation. With a gallery, researches the painter's other exhibitions or find out if there is a show by artists from a similar period. You can then ask if she wants to go with you.

Book groups

Book groups are the holy grail of dating pick up opportunities, as they provide not only a topic of conversation, but the social situation in which to start a relationship. It's essential to read the book thoroughly; otherwise she will think you are only there to get your little carrot wet. This may be the case, but that hand must be played close to your chest, or your hand will be the only play that ever get.

Church

If you are a churchgoer, don't dismiss church as a place to meet single women. Obviously it's not the place to meet girls who are just out for meaningless sex. You'd be better off back at the bar to meet them. However, if you are looking for a soul mate, why not try church? There will be numerous linked social occasions where you can talk about your love for the lord and develop your holy relationship.

Weddings

What is it about weddings and girls? By observing a single woman at a wedding you can tell how desperate she is to get a ring on her finger. Unless you feel similar despair yourself, avoid the girl who elbows the other out of the way to catch the bouquet. Instead, go for the girl who has had a little too much champagne and is dancing barefoot by herself. Need an opening line? Ask her how she knows the bride or groom. It's that simple.

The grocery store

The cliché is that you meet in one aisle and end up going down another. I wouldn't recommend specifically hanging out in grocery stores for the sole purpose of meeting women. But, if you happen to spot one, why not go and strike up a conversation?

A word about dating at work

With work lives being so demanding, it's not surprise that many of us meet our partners at work. After all, that where we spend most of our time. Employers often take a dim view of workplace flirting. They pay you to make them money, not make babies. Some employers feel so strongly about the issue that they have non fraternizing clauses in their contracts to prevent this type of behavior. So, while you might meet a potential partner at work, your dating is best done outside of business hours and with discretion.

If you are going out with a woman who works for you in a team that you manage, the situation could turn nasty because you might be accused of harassment. On the other hand, if you are sleeping without your female boss, disgruntled colleagues can easily point their fingers art you and accuse you of using unfair practices to climb the corporate ladder.

Finally, if a work relationship turns sour, the one thing you can guarantee about a work relationship is that, if things go wrong, you will see the girl again, every single day. Hopefully, you're getting the point.

Now that you have your venue for meeting women, we need to work on how you are going to communicate your interest and read their signs. Picking up on signals from body language is something that we do automatically before we even open our mouths. It is deeply rooted in out brains to interpret the signs that another person's behavior gives off. That's why it is important to pay attention to your own body language and to ensure that the signals that you are giving off match your intentions and encourage female attention.

There are two types of body language: open and closed. We discussed them earlier.

Open body language means that the person is receptive to social contact. She welcomes approaches from others and is in the mood to chat.

Closed body language, on the other hand, is a sign the person you are observing is not in the mood to communicate. She may specifically want to block you or make it known that she wants to be excluded from any conversation.

Your own body language

Despite advancements in sophisticated relationships between men and women, dating and the rules of attraction are all about primitive instincts. You want to show her that you are a dominant male who would be a father to her offspring. If she's interested, she wants to show you that she is fertile and that you would enjoy mating with her. How do we put this into practice?

Walk tall

Standing tall and proud gives the impression before you open your mouth or even before the girls sees your face that you are someone significant. Even if you don't feel confident, walking tall will make you look like you do.

Eyes

Strike a balance between avoiding eye contact and staring. If a girl that you are talking to is looking into your eyes and then looing away briefly, and returning her gaze, this is a sure sign of flirting.

Smile

Everyone knows that a real smile reaches your eyes and that smile gets the same reaction from the person you talking to. A word of warning, tough, smiling inanely no matter what she is saying will leave her with the impression that you are a little insane and that you are not listening to her.

Reading her body language

Have you ever seen a movie where the woman is clearly interested in a a man, but he can't see it? It is so obvious from her behavior that you want to throw something at the screen and yell at the male character. However, that is what happens in real life. When it is your own situation, with your own date in front of you, panic can make you tune out of her body language. Then you've absorbed all of the tips in this guide, this won't happen. Instead, you'll be able to read her signals and respond. What follows are the flirting signals from women.

Preening

As with other member of the animal community, females like to preen themselves to attract male attention. You can see it in the park with the birds or the cats grooming themselves. In the bar, or whichever venue you have chosen, you can also see nature at work. For example, when a woman plays with her hair, stroking it or lifting it away from her shoulders to expose a bare neck, that's a sure sign that she wants to draw attention to herself and invite you to get closer.

Lingering eye contact

If she makes a point of maintaining eye contact with you, then the lady in interested in you. Smile and approach her with confidence.

Drawing attention to feminine characteristics

Unbuttoning something or crossing and uncrossing her legs will draw attention to a woman's feminine shape. She is emphasizing to you that she is on the market and available. This is a great sign.

Also, while folding one's arms can be a closed sign, some women will do this, and then raise their arms slightly to draw attention to their breasts. She knows you probably noticed them already, but she wants to make sure.

Now that you know that she is interested. So, what the hell do you say?

When you get to this point, your mind may start racing with clever pick-up lines that your friends have assured you will work in any instance. Such brilliantly crafted lines may include:

• Are you tired? Because you've been running through my dreams.
• Do you know CPR? Because you take my breath away.
• I've lost my phone number, may I have yours?
• Nice shoes, let's fuck!

Now that you've seen them written down in black and white, don't they sound ridiculous?

It's about high time that you learn a very important secret. If you have ever persuaded a girl to go out with you, or more to the point, to go home with you, it will be despite and not because of and pick up lines that you've used on her. For one, using a line doesn't make a girl feel special. Why would she feel special when you've clearly used this routine a hundred times before?

To most girls, pick-up lines are the domain of men who only want a one night stand and nothing else. Accordingly, such pick-up lines are the kinds that are going to provoke the worst kind of rejection. Women will tell you to get lost.

So, now that you're never going to use a pick-up line again, what are you going to say? Here are some golden rules to observe before we look at some small talk techniques:

Don't appear to be too desperate. It's a cruel fact that appearing to be too enthusiastic can be a real turn off to a woman because there is no spark of sexual tension in this scenario. She enjoys the thrill of the chase as much as you do.

Don't get too personal. Asking women questions about herself is a good idea, but don't give her too much of an interrogation, otherwise she'll think that you just want her for her social security number. Admire the lady, but stop short of leering at her. Women want to feel desired and like to have their figures appreciated, but there is a fine line between this and being made to feel uncomfortable by a man's roving eyes.

So, if you can't refer directly to her body or use a cheesy pick-up line, what will you actually say? You may be surprised to learn that the ideal approach for a single man to use on a single woman is a simple introduction.

The introduction

Hello, I'm _____. Would you like a drink? Do you mind if I sit here?

This is an unthreatening approach to women, as you are registering your interest but not laying your cards out on the table right away. It's a safe approach to as well because no one could possibly be offended by it. If she doesn't want you to sit down, she will just say no thanks and you can move on to the next girl of your dreams.

An offer of help

That looks heavy; may I carry it for you?

Offering to help reinforces the idea that you are a big, strong man swooping in to rescue her. A small minority of women will be offended by the thought that people think she can't cope. However, if she is one of those girls with these kinds of issues, she'd best left behind then and there.

The general comment

It's hot today, isn't it? This train is always packed.

Honestly, you can squeeze a whole conversation out a one line opening. If you have picked up on some open body language signals, the chances are that the lady in question will be receptive to whatever you say. She's just waiting for you to come over and meet her. If, now that you know the signs you are looking for, your mutual attraction is obvious, don't be shy about moving the conversation straight on to introducing yourself and asking her name. After all, you have conquered your fear of rejection and know that, if she is a nice person, the worst that will happen is that she might not say much back or say that she is not interested. Too often guys try to come out with wisecracks instead of just starting a conversation like a normal person. Well, unless you are a professional comedian, it is painfully embarrassing for a woman to have to listen to bad pick-up lines.

In any event, later on in the relationship you can confess that you wanted to speak to her so badly that you would have said anything. She will be delighted that she had that effect on you.

General topics of conversation

Unless you bod immediately over something deep, it's best to keep the conversation light and clean. Some men make the mistake of having a script in their heads, but this can be disastrous because they never account for the woman actually speaking. Instead, have a list of questions that you could ask her if the conversation dries up.

• Are you working or studying around here?
• Is your family from around here?
• Did you see the game last night?
• That's an unusual necklace. Where did you get it?
• I love this museum/restaurant/gym. Have you tried the prehistoric exhibit/pasta/steam room?

Listening

When practicing small talk, don't forget to let the lady get a word in. If you are genuinely interested in her, you need to listen to what she is saying and respond appropriately.

If she continues to speak without much prompting, make nodding gestures to acknowledge that you are taking notice of what she's saying. Obviously this should not be overdone or she will think you have a nervous twitch. If she needs more encouragement, pick up on something she said earlier and ask to hear more about it.

Are you thinking that this sounds like hard work? If the woman is starting to think that you are attractive and a good listener, the rewards will be worth the work in the end.

If you've ever worked in sales, then you'll know that there is a magic moment when you have to declare your interest and close the deal. What you are looking for is a commitment to further involvement whether that means the lady is coming home with you that night or meeting you next week for a date. Perhaps you've been too nervous to take things to the next stage before or misread the signs and been surprised to get a brush off.

But now you've read this guide and you are much better equipped to deal with this scenario. First, have you been studying her body language? If she is displaying open signs, then you have permission to approach.

Has she been participating in the discussion that followed your introduction? If so, she is definitely interested. If not, you'd best walk away now. Although after finding someone who is well presented, sensitive to social situations and a good listener, she's still not interested, then good luck to her.

So, what further commitment are you looking for? Merely promising to call her sometime isn't good enough. Even if you actually intend to it sounds like something guys say just to get themselves out of awkward situations.

You need to tie her down to a specific situation to be able to continue the relationship. Getting out your phone and booking her looks lame, but at the same time you need a concrete commitment from her. Does she want to go out to dinner or see a movie or something? If possible, slips this seamlessly into the conversation where appropriate. For example, if you are in an Italian class and she says that she love Italian food, there's your chance.

Be yourself

It's tempting to really go overboard on dates in a new relationship and try to be the perfect guy. Of course you should make an effort to impress your new woman, but if you depart too much from your real personality, she will pick up on the effort it is taking and dismiss you as fake.

Perhaps ex-girlfriends have told you that you're too conservative or that you don't laugh enough. Don't try to overcompensate for the comments by cracking jokes all of the time wearing outlandish clothes. If you want the girls you've picked up to find you attractive, just be yourself, but on your best behavior.

She wants a man.

Sometimes, if you have met someone you really like the look of and think that she might be more than a passing fling, you could be tempted to shower her with phone calls, chocolate and flowers. While the chosen lady might enjoy this attention at first, coming across as too needy is a turn off and could send her running for the hills. You have to walk a careful path between being in touch with your emotions and being a strong man. No one ever said that this was going to be easy.

Be a little unpredictable

Building anticipation in a relationship is a great way to increase the thrill of the chase. After all, falling in love should be a sensual, teasing process which you can initiate. For example, don't fall into a rut about going to the same places together to two dates in a row. Suggest something out of the ordinary, so she can see different sides of you. What about a trip to the countryside or a boat ride? The fact that you've given the date some thought speaks volumes to her lets her know that she's high in your estimation.

To keep her keen, never treat her mean but that not to say that you can't walk the borderline of playing hard to get. Make sure that it is always you who finishes dates and phone calls just before they get stale. This will leave her in eager anticipation for more. Likewise, don't always be available when she wants a date. It's a cliché, the more she can't have you, the more she'll want you. On the other hand, don't be ridiculous about it. No one will believe that you don't have a window in your schedule until next month for a quick coffee.

Be courteous

As outlined at the beginning of this guide, it is essential that your woman feels respected. That's why there is a fine line between being unpredictable and being an idiot. If you commit yourself to a date, turn up on time. Standing people up is not acceptable on any level. She will quickly lose respect for your and, unless you have a genuine and believable excuse, you are unlikely to get a chance to redeem yourself. Likewise, if you say that you will call, call. Missing a time when you said you would ring her doesn't count as creating anticipation; it counts as messing around with her.

Who should pay?

This is a tricky situation for modern relationships. After all, if she has a job and wants to be treated like an equal, the woman should pay her way, right. This is generally the socially accepted view. However, there is one exception. If you have asked her to a particularly expensive restaurant, it's unreasonable to expect her to turn up and pay for half of the lobster.

How long between dates?

This will depend on how you feel about the girl; if you are happy to leave it a week or longer between date, then this relationship probably isn't going to get very far. However, if you can't wait to see her the following day, don't reveal this fact at this stage. This is a good sign, and hopefully she feels the same. Unless you think that she wants to come straight home with you and tear off your clothes right there, leave a day between dates to build her anticipation.

Should you be exclusive?

If you graduate to a second date, you need to stop seeing other people. Otherwise, if she finds out, the message that she is getting is that she's okay, but you're still shopping around.

Will flattery get you everywhere?

We've all heard the saying that flattery will get you everywhere. Of course, society puts so much emphasis on women's appearance that they love to be told how attractive they are. Such compliments need to be genuine and sporadic to be believable. Otherwise, you will be committing a worse dating crime than forgetting to flatter; you will come across as being insincere. If you are really so overwhelmed by this girl, keep the compliments to a sensible quota.

The first kiss

As ever dental hygiene is of paramount importance for kissing. There is nothing more off putting to a woman than smelling your last meal on your breath.

Start gently with kisses and let her lead the way. You may be surprised by how keen she is to take things further if you hold back a little.

Going further

It's time to dust off those skills you learned about reading body language from chapter 4. This is how you can gauge how far the lady is ready and willing to go. Unless you are bother teenagers, your lady will not think it's cool to start making out in public, especially if you intend to take things further. Ideally, wait for her to invite you back to her apartment, where you can graduate from kissing to more involved sexual activities.

If you can bear it, keep her in a state of anticipation so by the end of the evening she is happy to get on with it.

For the first time to sleep together there's no doubt that the pressure's on. After all, you've been building up to this since you first spotted her. You want to perform well, enjoy yourself, and leave her wanting more.

Let's look at this situation from the woman's perspective. She may not have been able to think of anything other than getting your clothes off since she first saw you either, but there is still a huge stigma attached to women who are too forward. She doesn't want to come across as some kind of slut, even though all normal, healthy girls think about sex almost as much as guys.

Safety

Although the woman might be taking care of contraception herself, carry a condom to protect against sexually transmitted diseases. Don't be embarrassed about stopping to put on. It's most likely that she will be grateful and relieved that you have taken responsibility.

Want oral sex?

Most guys love oral sex. Most women love oral sex. Just as she is too embarrassed to ask for precisely what she wants in other areas, there is still a taboo about girls asking for cunnilingus. It's still seen as not being something nice girls do. The message here is that if you want to receive, you also need to give.

Avoid falling into a rut

When a relationship feels cozy, you can start to get into a bit of a rut. If sex has become routine, try to introduce a bit of change into the scenario, as long as both of you are happy with it. Don't' be afraid to ask her what she would like to try. Does she have any fantasies that she wants to act out? If you can afford it, suggest a short break in a hotel room. There is nothing like a bit of luxury to reignite things in the bedroom.

Here is a list of things you should and should not do in a relationship:

Do

• Treat each other with respect
• Keep details of your relationship confidential. Otherwise you will lose trust in each other.
• Remember why you originally picked her up. Keep things fresh.
• Keep up her level of anticipation.
• Have more to the relationship than sex. Otherwise if one of you is stressed and having a difficult time, you will have nothing to relate to each other about.

Don't

• Get stuck in a rut.
• Maintain a relationship with someone because you're too chicken to let her down gently.
• Move things too quickly. Get to know each other thoroughly before making any commitments.

If you are doing the ending

The kindest, most decent thing you can do is tell a girl gently and to her face that the relationship is not working out. There are very few bunny boilers out there. Once you have dealt with the initial tears, then your conscience will be clear and you can move on.

From a brutal but pragmatic perspective, if you have behaved like a gentleman throughout, then her friends could be a source of future dates, when the furor of this current relationship ending has died down.

If you have been dumped

If you have been dumped, there is only one word: dignity. Don't beg to be taken back, as this will never work and leave her with the impression that you are pathetic. Accept the situation and move on.

Unless you have a pert in a porn film, a hot girl is never going to ring the doorbell and throw herself at you. You need to be proactive and take steps to get out there and find that girls yourself.

Using the tips and techniques you have learned from this guide, you must conquer your fear of rejection and start picking up more girls. You know where to find women, what their body language means, and what to say to them. You also know how to make them love sex as much as you do.

Do not, however, forget the golden rules of a successful relationship. Treat your woman with respect and let her know that she is appreciated and desire. If things are not going to work out, say so honestly and gently.

Good luck! Now go get ‘em!